How to Choose a Wedding Videographer (Without the Overwhelm)
- Luke White
- Apr 16
- 3 min read
Updated: May 23
Finding someone who gets your day - and doesn’t miss a moment!
Your wedding video is more than just a keepsake. It’s your unique story, told in motion. Choosing the right videographer can seem daunting with so many styles, packages, and price points available. However, it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Here’s what really makes a difference and how to select a wedding videographer for you.

1. Choose a Wedding Videographer with a Style That Feels Like You
Every wedding videographer has a unique creative flair. From dramatic slow-motion captures to candid documentary-style edits, the styles vary greatly. Some films are heavily stylised, while others aim to let the day unfold naturally.
There’s no right or wrong in style, only what resonates with you. At West Sussex Wedding Videos, our approach is personal and unscripted. We don't choreograph moments. Instead, we capture genuine emotions, subtle glances, and all the moments that you might not even realise are happening.
2. Consider How It’ll Feel on the Day
If being filmed all day feels awkward, you’re not alone. However, a good wedding videographer will not make you feel “on camera.” Instead, they will help you forget the camera exists.
We don’t direct or interrupt the flow of your day. Our goal is to blend into the background and quietly document what’s truly happening. This way, you won’t feel like you’re performing; you’ll just be enjoying your special day while we ensure nothing meaningful slips by.
3. Ask What’s Included - and What’s Not
When exploring options, some suppliers may quote low prices, but only stay for a few hours or charge extra for essential moments. Others might offer only “highlight-only” packages or skip over important parts like speeches and receptions altogether.
At West Sussex Wedding Videos, we believe that your whole day matters. From the excitement of getting ready to the biggest moments (and even the biggest dance moves), we will be there throughout. We’re committed to ensuring no part of your wedding story is missed.
4. Read Between the (Review) Lines
Reading testimonials can reveal much more than simple praise like “they were great.” Look for mentions of how the videographer made people feel. Were they calm and unobtrusive? Did they offer reassurance? Did they go above and beyond and fade seamlessly into the background?
Excellent reviews will provide you a glimpse into both the experience you can expect and the final product. Check out what couples think of West Sussex Wedding Videos on Hitched and Google.
5. Watch with Your Heart, Not Just Your Eyes
It’s easy to get swayed by flashy drone shots or trendy colour grades. However, what matters most is how a wedding film makes you feel.
Does it capture joy, connection, and those indescribable beautiful moments? This is precisely what we chase in every film. Years from now, when you look back, you won’t search for fancy camera moves. You’ll be on the lookout for you.
6. Finding the Perfect Fit
Selecting a wedding videographer is about finding the right harmony. You want someone whose vision aligns with yours. Each couple is unique, and your videographer should reflect that. Don’t hesitate to reach out to potential videographers. Ask questions, and get a feel for their personality.
When you connect with a videographer, it can make a big difference in your comfort level. A good vibe leads to capturing genuine moments, ultimately making your wedding film even more magical.
7. The Long-term Value of Quality Video
Investing in a high-quality wedding videographer is a choice for the long term. Your wedding day will fly by, but your video will help you relive those moments over and over. It’s a way to share your love story with future generations.
Consider the lasting memories you’ll create together. Make sure your wedding video is a piece you’ll cherish for years. Think about other moments in your life you wish you could relive, and know that a great videographer can help make that possible.
Conclusion: Embrace the Journey
As you embark on your wedding planning journey, keep these points in mind. A wedding video should be an honest reflection of your day, capturing all the little details that make it special.
Are you looking for a wedding videographer who’s discreet, thoughtful, and focused on the emotions of the day? We’d love to hear about your plans. Get in touch and let’s build your perfect wedding video package, ensuring your special moments are captured forever.